Love doesn’t mean freedom to do whatever we want. It means motivation to do what we should. 

Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭13‬-‭14‬ ‭says, “For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”

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But a lot of people are difficult to love! How can we?

Verse 16 gives us the secret of loving (and living) beyond ourselves: “This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.”